I’ve been either busy or working so much that I haven’t had the time to deep clean my house.
And it’s getting to me. At least if I lived alone, things would be left the way I had them. The trash wouldn’t have to be taken out so much cause I’m barely there. The bathroom wouldn’t look as messy cause it’s barely used. The fridge would be fully stocked or completely clean 😂.
My sister has a huge anxiety disorder and fusses about getting a job. But doesn’t really contribute anything to the house, especially doesn’t clean. If she does, it’s cause I told her to do it. And she doesn’t budge when I’m polite about it, she only moves her ass when I’m screaming or constantly talking shit.
I try not to hurt her feelings by calling her useless or things related to that, I just try to make her open her eyes. But coming home while she’s gaming all day and the bathroom looks like shit makes me want to snap a bit. And the fact that she can’t even have a conversation or at least listen to me when I’m speaking about it just works my nerves even more.
Her excuse for not wanting to do the dishes: It’s gross.
Her excuse for not wanting to take out the trash: “I don’t want the neighbors to see me, I’ll do it at night”
Our house almost got broken into once and it traumatized her, so now she even fusses about doing it at night. I still make her do it tho, cause she can’t even clean the bathroom without thinking it’s gross.
I’m proud of her for cleaning up her room cause it looked like a hoarder’s room. I think it shows progress with her actually starting to care about herself so I gave her endless praise compliments that day lol she did a good job.
Anyway.
I just know when I get back home we’re going to have a huge fight.
My sister has a huge anxiety disorder and fusses about getting a job. But doesn’t really contribute anything to the house, especially doesn’t clean. If she does, it’s cause I told her to do it. And she doesn’t budge when I’m polite about it, she only moves her ass when I’m screaming or constantly talking shit.
I try not to hurt her feelings by calling her useless or things related to that, I just try to make her open her eyes. But coming home while she’s gaming all day and the bathroom looks like shit makes me want to snap a bit. And the fact that she can’t even have a conversation or at least listen to me when I’m speaking about it just works my nerves even more.
Her excuse for not wanting to do the dishes: It’s gross.
Her excuse for not wanting to take out the trash: “I don’t want the neighbors to see me, I’ll do it at night”
Our house almost got broken into once and it traumatized her, so now she even fusses about doing it at night. I still make her do it tho, cause she can’t even clean the bathroom without thinking it’s gross.
I’m proud of her for cleaning up her room cause it looked like a hoarder’s room. I think it shows progress with her actually starting to care about herself so I gave her endless praise compliments that day lol she did a good job.
Anyway.
I just know when I get back home we’re going to have a huge fight.
