Are you a firm believer that people come into your life for a reason?
Or is it all random happenstance?
56-60, F
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OogieBoogie · F
I do.
Sometimes the worst people and things happen and disrupt everything....sometimes the best happen just when we need it most.
I really like something i heard once from a woman who had an nde. - "stuff doesnt happen to you, it happens for you, and once you realize this, it changes its meaning"
Which i think i does. Well for me it does.
It helps me stop asking "why me?", and more ...... "What now?, which direction?"
Which is a completely different mindset.
Change is necessary.....and if you dont willingly, life forces you to.
Sometimes the worst people and things happen and disrupt everything....sometimes the best happen just when we need it most.
I really like something i heard once from a woman who had an nde. - "stuff doesnt happen to you, it happens for you, and once you realize this, it changes its meaning"
Which i think i does. Well for me it does.
It helps me stop asking "why me?", and more ...... "What now?, which direction?"
Which is a completely different mindset.
Change is necessary.....and if you dont willingly, life forces you to.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@OogieBoogie That's an interesting perpsective. Thanks.