Losing followers!

People add you here with the expectation that you will add them back, but they don't communicate, they never look to have a conversation with you, it's purely voyeurism!

Then there are those who do everything they think necessary for you to add them, and you don't hear anything further! They don't even comment on your entries or photos, to build any kind of mutuality and friendliness.

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DeWayfarer · 61-69, M

Personally and for the most part, I let others add me.

It's only when I have had a lot of interaction that I might add others. And even then I have had at least six months of interaction.

This last has happened mostly with the last couple of months because my feed was dead slow without adding those that I have mentioned.

PMs I also rarely initiate.

This is especially true with women. For the most part 80% are far younger than me. I don't want to appear as being a creep. Though some may take my profile as somewhat being a creep.

At least I'm honest in my profile. With lots of stuff about me.

I have had little interaction with you at all. 🤷🏻‍♂️

I suspect they follow you for the same reason, though. Their feed is dead!