Do u believe people come into ur life for a reason?

I used to believe this, but knowing the reality of how cruel people can and do come into the lives of some very innocent people has changed my perspective.

Life would certainly be easier if we had the definitive answer to the whys of all this.

No. That would mean the other people who come into my life exist in order to have some impact on my life. That would make me the center of the universe. I don't think I'm that important.

Yes everything is fated, I often dream of people then meet them. It’s all ordained you have karmic ties, look up https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Yuanfen

I believe in fate, so yeah

Only if u believe it..I don’t!

Id like an answer to why people dont come into my life lol

Yes ..most certainly. No meeting is accidentally. Sometimes we don't know it at the time.

But if you look back at how a particular individual impacted your life, and the lesson learned. You soon realise 🤔

yes.. to eat my food..

Yes.They come and leave an imprint on our personalities.Sometimes good ,other times bad .Either way it shapes our perspectives .

Yes, I know by my experiences. Each one teaches us essentials that are needed at that given hour.

No.
For a reason? Like who makes up or decides the reason? It's just a construct we give it to justify or give it meaning.

Yes . And the opposite is also true.. where you enter their life for a reason..

IOW .. Life is an intercourse..

Yes of course they there to teach us about life and how to be better beings

No. I bring people in and ignore the rest. I don’t have time for losers

Yes and that reason is because I'm the idiot who let them in my life to begin with

Yes. And that reason is to do the huckabuck