Would you ever be something you're not because of social or political pressures?

Yes, I suppose I am, I’m nervous to be myself
@Violetta

Yes, I think so. @Violetta

I suppose you’re right, being popular is so important to me though.@Violetta

I’m not sure why, I’ve just always been that way.@Violetta

@Strongtea yes being popular is important to a lot of people and I think we would be lying if we said we didn't enjoy that, but at the same time it's not worth losing yourself over. You really hurt your own character and self-esteem when you are not true to yourself. You are enough! And people will respect you a lot more when they know that you are authentic and true to yourself. Don't underestimate yourself. You are only powerful and resilient as you want to be. People show and teach others how they wish to be treated and that's what you need to do. Find a good self-help book on that or else a good video there's a guy I forget his name now but he is really good about helping with that and changing people's lives. I think I gave you his name before. His first name is Noah.

Thankyou! That’s so so helpful. 😊@LadyGrace

@Strongtea You'll do good. I know you will because you're a strong-willed person when you need something for yourself but you may not realize it yet. I'll send you a video which will help you. Just give me time to find it.
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For now, I recommend this:

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Thankyou for that, I’ll watch it later today when i get home from work.@LadyGrace

Yes I think you’re right. I think I do it too much or to an extreme though.@SW-User