I Need to Rant

STORYTIME: beginning of last year I met a guy through my bestie. We would always hang out, the three of us. He was cute, funny, and outgoing but I was more shy around him. Before we’d actually hang out he’d flirt with me but I would take it as a joke bc he’s very goofy so I didn’t think he was being serious. Few weeks pass and my friend is like girl he keeps telling me he likes you and I was like whatever but the more we’d hang out the feelings grew. One day he asks me to go to a football game with him and I’m like sure. I meet his crazy, loud friends and the whole time they are questioning me I’m feeling uncomfortable and I stay reserved bc at this point I’m annoyed. One of his friends whispers to him “is this the girl you were talking about?” For some reason I felt offended aha (idk) anyways were cuddling and holding hands then I get a sudden rush of butterflies traveling through my arms and stomach whenever he held me tighter or rubbed his hand on my shoulder. It was a weird night but I loved being with him. The next day I went out of town for about 4 days. Sadly my charger broke and I could barely get to a charger (my sister hated sharing). So I barely talked to him I was like it’s just 4 days oh well. When I got back I was so excited to see him so we planned to hang out and he ended up saying he was busy... I knew something was up. My brother tells me he asked him if I ever talk at home which I found weird. That night he texted me “I’m done talking to you.” I felt so embarrassed, shocked, hurt. I was confused. I wish things were different if I should’ve been more myself and open with him, show him my goofy side... the lack of communication was there usually with people I can be outgoing or talkative if I feel comfortable but I just never knew what to talk about with him and now that everything ended I realized how could’ve been more communicative. He then asked my friends how I was after which I don’t understand

I need opinions on the situation itself and what could have possibly been the reason why things ended

nightowl99

Hard to figure this out clearly. Sounds like he didn't appreciate the fact you are shy and is into someone more extroverted or outgoing, fact is some guys don't understand that all girls are not be all the same in their ways or personality. I also think he may be influenced by his loud friends too. I don't think the 4 days you were away were a factor. When he asked your brother about you talking at home, that kind of makes me think he didn't appreciate the quietness. Look, he may be cute but don't try to change to please a guy. I feel he's not good for you in the long run and you could end up hurt even. Why take that risk? There's other "cute" guys who will accept your shynes and be happy with that 100%. Just saying..... so try not to lose sleep over him ok

Complexconfessions · M

Sounds like he was just immature and maybe wanted things a lot faster than he got them and being a dumb guy he hopped on to the next thing. Us guys do a lot of dumb shit, especially when were in highschool. Don't think you did anything wrong.

Complexconfessions · M

@Judemaixcx yo I was a head of your time. Most girls mature faster than the guys for sure. I was maybe an exception but most of.my friends were definitely way behind in maturing 😂