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Do not take my kindness for a weakness..

There are some truly depraved individuals on this site. I swear that i am too kind sometimes. Sometimes to a fault. But i will not let you gaslight me, or use me for whatever sick agenda that you might have. Most of the time i don't even block people i would just rather avoid you and not interact with you than to block you, we are adults, and blocking, it feels so petty to me as far as i am concerned, personally. However, i will block someone for harassing someone else though because i dont like bullies, So if i see you on here bullying someone i will match your fuqqing energy, On another note, If i waste my energy on you and you have a nonchalant attitude, then you will not receive another word from me, consider me dead to you! I dont know about you but i value both my words & my energy and i dont just give them to anyone.
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I came to SW from a site that had no blocking nor muting. We just fought it out or ignored each other and I figured I’d do the same here. But it didn’t take long to understand that it’s very nice to have the option to remove people from my airspace. I still don’t mute all that often and block even less but I have no problem pulling the trigger.
AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
@OlderSometimesWiser people are so depraved that it's definitely needed. I understand that believe me. I try my best to let it be my last resort.
@OlderSometimesWiser Holy moly, what was that previous site ? I looked at a couple before EP friends told me about SW. There was one site whose name I can’t remember that also had no blocking. It was also a free-for-all regarding sexual posts. One guy’s avatar was a photo of his butthole. 😱
AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
@bijouxbroussard ugh 🤮 that's sick
@AngelUnforgiven Yes. I left after the first day.
@bijouxbroussard Lol….. actually it was fine. With no block/mute options, we were forced to either get along, fight it out or learn to ignore each other. Moderation was such that none of that crazy sexual/fetish stuff would be tolerated. We had a very nice, close-knit online community.

It’s also the site where I met my husband and a dear friend I’ve had for 18 years. 🙂
@OlderSometimesWiser Well, that’s very good.
It clearly wasn’t the site I mentioned. 😃