Men can be weird

I started talking to this guy on facebook, it was friendly and i told him i wasnt looking for anything at all

he proceeded to flirt me and i was like okay "im just gonna go with it " obviously he doesnt respect

boundaries. I wanted to see how dumb he thought i would be so I continued to talk to him and realized so many red flags

I spoke to him on messenger ,he tells me he just came out of prison so he is not working, has 2 kids,

doesnt know how to write a resume,lives with grandma , his chiklds mother wants nothing to do with

him,hes 26 mind you.

It was just one after another lmao

He tells me he is trying to come down to where i live to see some parade with his friend but he would rather see me

Right there i knew yupp this is not good.. Later in the conversation he says where are some rooms the can stay at, automatically i knew , my intuition was telling me he was going to ask to stay with me . Why would he plan a trip and ask me where he can stay??

why not ask these questions to his friend ? Then he throws in the conversation he doesnt know if i would let him stay with me a night or so..

I was like yeah no.. I don't let men i just met stay with me. At this point i just blocked him.. its sad to think they're women who would fall for this kind of trap.

Disgusting for a guy to think he just met a woman with children and automatically thinks imma let him stay over a night or two in my house??? Scary world

HoeBag · 46-50, F

its sad to think they're women who would fall for this kind of trap.

At least he is being honest about his situation. I mean it is unlikely someone would fabricate that.

Younger women would probably jump at the chance to be with something like that. After age 30 though, we tend to be a bit more selective of who we let into our private lives.

I see that often in my city - younger women who could be with any man they want are walking around with Mr. G-dawg p*mp d4ddy from Harlem.

HoeBag · 46-50, F

@moonpeace81 As you probably know also - be careful of these men claiming to work on an oil rig, or say they are rich doctors, or soldiers stationed wherever.