I really distrust and dislike most men.

Idk how to feel positive and trust towards men again... I live in tensions of what he might do if i be around any man... Tensions itself are killing me in half.

Only option for me is to learn to be happy even if i have/get a partner in my life or not.

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Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F

I would seek out counseling as I don't believe that's the only choice.

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@Justmeraeagain i did seek... she told me to trust oneself and love oneself, people come and go, don't be dependent on others. And also to look in right places and also take time to get to know them, beware of red flags and trust gut feelings, if something feels wrong stay away ... Love will only feel like peace/calm and respected in everything i do.

Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F

@sahi81 That makes sense