All men in my life betaryed me

@HobNoblin i don't want sex,.... i just want a good partner

@HobNoblin I'm celibate, you get used to it. I much prefer it now. It's what monks and seekers of esoteric knowledge do. It lets you transcend the banal and vulgar.

@HobNoblin i am not smart 😭

@sahi81 You can have friends who are not lovers. Do voulenteer work for instance, you'll meet friends. Maybe join a book club or play some sort of sport that interests you.

@HobNoblin maybe i should focus on making money

@HobNoblin i tried that, it didn't work!.... male friends only wanted one thing and female friends didn't like me... i too didn't like them back when i tried to make or i felt i was only causing burden in their lives or felt i was too good for them

@sahi81 I'm not overly bright I can bairly do Math I'm childish in some ways. I still do OK.

@HobNoblin i bet u had a gf before

@sahi81 I was involved with a girl way back. I ended up like you. She was no good. I picked the wrong girl. I chased around with some Japanese girls in college but they were smart. They all went with Japanese men like they should. I didn't have enough sense to know better at the time.

@HobNoblin i never been in a relationship with anyone more than few weeks.... i want to be in a long-term relationship and see how it's like 😭

@sahi81 From what I learned over the years it's based in sex and reproduction. Why do you think the men you're with just want sex? Because that type of relationship is about sex. It evolved for sex. To seek such a relationship and leave sex out of it is to misuse what nature created.

@HobNoblin see, if i get a pet bcuz it's cute means it's about sex? What having a partner have to do with sex?

Maybe i just met wrong men

@HobNoblin i edited my reply

@sahi81 A pet is not the male of your species. A man is different. You're dealing with primal forces that go back beyond the cambrian era. We are only male and female for one reason.