I Hate Men Who Abuse Women

A Man Does Not Love You When......... He hits you and is verbally abusive.
He tries to control every move you make.
He resents you for having a better job and education.
He is jealous of your friends and family and tries to stop you seeing them.
He crictisizes what is dearest to your heart.
He makes fun of your fears.
He keeps putting you down and pointing out your weaknesses.
Your money is his money,
and he resents you buying yourself a treat .
He backs up the people who are rude or hostile towards you.
you find out he has been running you down behind your back.
He constantly lies to you.
He fails to comfort you when you are distraught or in pain,
and tells you to stop moaning!
He denies you your deepest need,like wanting to be a mother,and tries to convince you that you would not want children either.

No matter how often he tells you "he loves you" if any of these signs above apply,
GET OUT AND GET OUT FAST!

I did not get out fast enough!

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FashionQueen86

I could NOT help but think about a friend I recently reconnected with. She married this man that has been nothing but a jerk to her. But I hold her responsible as she just jumped up and married him without really getting to know him. They met purely for sex interest, but when she got pregnant she felt pressured to marry him, but eventually learned to love him.

He cheated on her on their daughter's birthday, she gave up some family members for him for a few years. She gave up her job to be a housewife. Her Facebook account was deactivated THREE times becuase he didn't like her having one. He suggested a threesome, he would sometimes force her to have sex, he abandoned her one night when she was a few months pregnant. I mean the list goes on and I was very disappointed in her when she went back to him a few weeks ago.

There are some women out there that just don't get it. They don't get it. And it may be all they know or all they grew up in. It's sad they have to learn the hard way.

berangere · 80-89, F

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