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DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
I had a number of girlfriends that were waitress. Yet if I tipped them well above normal, it would be noticed by the other waitresses and I wouldn't get good service by the other waitresses.

You don't always get a choice to who will serve you. Nor are all waitresses there all the time.

The food services often has frequent schedule changes. Especially with the younger waitresses, that haven't been there a long time. They even fill in for the older waitresses.

ABCDEF7 · M
I don't have tip culture in my country. You get paid in salary what you work for. Paying for work is responsibility of employer, not of customer.

I would ask employer/manager to allow her to have lunch with me, if it's not some official lunch.
@ABCDEF7 Here people are paid a low wage, and tips make the difference for them. If they do a good job they get a larger tip, bad service they get nothing. It is win/win.
ABCDEF7 · M
@MisterBander I know that they are paid less. But I don't understand why a thriving country/economy can't pay a section of it's work force adequate renumeration. Here, if they do good jod, they can get frequent increments and bonuses with additional benefits from employer. They can increase the prices of their products if they can't afford correct salaries with the current prices. Being from other country/culture I just can't understand the justification for tipping system. If a customer like the services of person they can offer tip with their will, but it shouldn't be expected every time from every customer.
@ABCDEF7 The benefit is that sometimes a rich drunk guy will visit and hand over a massive tip. No employer could afford that as part of standard wages.
Also by not paying them a liveable wage the employer can have more staff, and let the tips pay the extra.
There are some restaurants here that do not rely on tips too, or they share the tips so no single person gets it all, which is kind of sad for that lady that would have had a nice bonus that day.
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If you give her lots of tips she might buy you a motorcycle one day, or a guitar, or a new lacrosse racket, or whatever floats your boat. Oh yea.. a boat. :)
Softandsweet2 · 36-40, F
Tip her well then slip a 20 in her bra. That couch can get cold and hard.
eMortal · M
How would you feel if you girlfriend came to your work place and sees you getting bossed around like a child?!
Keeper · M
Just the tip
Iwillwait · M
Always Tip triple.
Zaphod42 · 51-55, M
That’s not dating, that’s stalking 😉
D. Don't go to eat there.
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