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I think I struggle with being emotionally attached to others.

Or I just have rly strong boundaries.. Because once I feel something is off, I struggle really hard to find that connection again..

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XxBlahxX · F

I think part of it is trauma response . Like...in struggling with that atm...how much is bound and how much is a wall I've belt around myself. I think you have to asses the person or situation on a case by case basis

mindstruggle

It's good that you have a strong boundary. Unfortunately, I have that off vibe 😅 maybe that's why I can't keep a relationship.

soulrespite ·

I always liked your vibes.. Can we just be friends in public posts? Pm is too much for me and starts to get awkward.. 🥺 @mindstruggle

mindstruggle

@soulrespite
Ofc! I get that. 🫂💙

itsok · 31-35, F

I think I get that. Once something feels off, it feels unsafe, and whatever I felt for them previously is instantly distant

soulrespite ·

Yeah, I gave chances irl and it usually ended us up in the same situation. @itsok

MellyMel22 · F

I feel ya on the feeling something off. It shuts me down and I start detaching faster than I attached.

Kiesel · 56-60, M

I most definitely understand…. I’m a bit the same

Younameit · F

Keep your standards high. It’ll save you from disappointments and heartbreak.

chernobylplaygr0unds

Same

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chernobylplaygr0unds

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soulrespite ·

I wanna make so many more but I get so lazy and run out of ideas.

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Let’s brainstorm
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chernobylplaygr0unds

@soulrespite girl same ...yesss !

AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F

Have you ever been wrong in you're feeling that something is off?

soulrespite ·

Not usually tbh.. that’s why it’s so hard to go back to how things were. 🥺 @AngelUnforgiven

AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F

@soulrespite i'm sorry 🫂

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