Intelligence is attractive..

It’s easy to look at a woman with a nice figure and who has great physical attributes and think they’re attractive, but what about someone who is mature, can talk about whatever topics for hours, is funny, kind, caring, intelligent, and can make you smile every day? That’s attractive.

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Jorogumo · F

Looks fade. A beautiful mind lasts much longer. I personally find intelligence far more a turn on than looks.

DHggmu · 26-30, M

@Jorogumo 100%. They can look good but have the personality of a brick, if I can’t talk to them there’s not much there.

Slade · 56-60, M

@Jorogumo

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Coralmist · 36-40, F

Its so refreshing to hear that..most men and women seem to care primarily on looks. While its great to have chemistry on a physical level, its not a man's body I want to talk to or connect with, its his heart and mind.

DHggmu · 26-30, M

@Coralmist We can have a physical connection with so many people, but I believe mental connections are very rare, and they can mean a lot.

TexChik · F

So you’re saying a woman would have to be fat and ugly in order to be intelligent , fun, have a sense of humor , and be kind ? Or is it that you trying make excuses because that’s all you can get ?

DHggmu · 26-30, M

@TexChik I have no idea whatsoever how that is what you got from what I said? First of all I would never call someone fat or ugly, secondly this was a positive post that I would think would make a lot of women who are insecure feel better about themselves, not be hostile.

Fantabulous · 46-50, F

We place so much value on appearance, but you are right, true value should be placed on someone who makes our soul happy

DHggmu · 26-30, M

@Fantabulous Appearence can play a factor but it also fades, every true connection I have had has been with someone I can talk to all day, that’s what makes me happy.

Gaiia · F

Yeah the same goes to any person. Attractiveness is a mixture of physical and personality

DHggmu · 26-30, M

@Gaiia Yes I should have phrased it as anyone not just women, physical is the initial attraction, personality is the one that lasts. Nice hair btw! 🙂

SarithBorn · 18-21, M

I do have the hots for women in glasses or nerdy so u may be on to something there. 🤣

DHggmu · 26-30, M

@SarithBorn Glasses can be sexy, and if a girl is into the same shows/films/games/books as I am (nerdy) then there’s not much better!

SarithBorn · 18-21, M

@DHggmu Smart women are the best 😇

BeefySenpie · M

It is, but [b]some[/b] degree of physical attraction is still essential

DHggmu · 26-30, M

@BeefySenpie Absolutely, I didn’t want this post to imply it’s either or, physical and sexual attraction are essential in a relationship.

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