how do you deal with rejection in general
any form of rejection by the opposite sex can hurt, i've been rejected many, many times through my life....how do you learn to not take it personal and take it to heart?
46-50, M
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LetsTry · 22-25
Keeping the expectations low in the beginning is very crucial.. they can be completely opposite of what you imagined them so desiring them desperately is not very good.
I say this because I used to be so obsessed with few of the boys back in college and in hindsight I really see them that they were not very good human beings. Not very kind... Quite sexist and misogynist, boasty ..
Now this brings to the second point .
Why was I with them if them if they were so bad ? Three words.
Low self esteem.
This is the most important point. Love yourself. Infinitely and unconditionally. See all parts of you, your mistakes , your ugly messy anger and jealousy.. love all of them.
You will be alright 😊.
I say this because I used to be so obsessed with few of the boys back in college and in hindsight I really see them that they were not very good human beings. Not very kind... Quite sexist and misogynist, boasty ..
Now this brings to the second point .
Why was I with them if them if they were so bad ? Three words.
Low self esteem.
This is the most important point. Love yourself. Infinitely and unconditionally. See all parts of you, your mistakes , your ugly messy anger and jealousy.. love all of them.
You will be alright 😊.