Caring sucks on SW

I can tell when someone cares and when they don't. Personally I tend to keep people at a distance because I get tired of being hurt. I do appreciate it when its real and honest but sometimes its hard for me to see the difference 😔

I get it.

I am sorry to hear that. There are some wonderful caring people here, but then there are those poeple that are here just to shoot the shit, or hurt others. You have to find your group of people and stick to the. I have met some wonderful people who have been with me through my darkest times, and sometimes things are so bad, I never thank the people who are there during those times but I do appreciate it. Depression can take a lot out of someone leaving them completely drained and not able to show the appreciation but I hope those who know me by now, know that I appreciate it greatly. Don't change who you are because some people can't be vulnerable with their feelings. Its a reflection of them, not you.

Yep. You try to show you care and they think you have some motive. Or if you try to make them smile, they say something like ... "I don't need YOU to make me happy".

After a while you just 🖕🏽. Who needs it?

Understandable that you’d feel hurt. Probably best to remain caring but not set your expectations too high. And to also remember that there are cases where those tough times can leave a person emotionally drained and not always able to show the appreciation we’d like.

I've had my heart broken by a couple women here. I don't expect anything anymore

I just avoid those people, and stay with the ones who get it. There are people here whose value is beyond measure, and others I wouldn't give you a nickel for.

Yes.

So much more fun when you don't ✌️

Sorry to hear you have been hurt 🩷