Latest scammer? Or what?

Yes, it’s true. Every once in a while, I meet somebody that I just click with. And they live close enough to potentially arrange a face-to-face meeting. This latest girl was very interesting. And was enthusiastic to meet. We traded Personal phone numbers and have been communicating offsite for quite a while.

Recently, we decided to meet. With a winter storm canceling our first attempt, the second attempt she confirmed not just once, not just twice but three times that we were still on track. Hotel reservations, bookings for this and that, sent a her few gifts prior to our meeting her home address, flowers, etc. As the date got closer, she started disappearing unreachable for days at a time.

This is a girl that would text me every day multiple times a day. And then nothing. Completely off grid. And then she would come back with some weird excuse like her cell phone was broken and couldn’t get it fixed over the weekend. And then she would resume texting me every day multiple times a day. So I blew it off. And then it happened again, and then it happened a third time. So I questioned it, how can a phone keep breaking while we are in the final days prior to our meeting? But there was no response to the question. No reply to are you still on track. I’m stuck having sent gifts. Made reservations. And bookings that I cannot cancel.

This girl does not have the common courtesy to be truthful and honest. I even asked her are you seeing someone else? It’s OK if you are because we’re just getting to know each other and there’s no expectation of loyalty. Just honesty. She insisted she was not. Yet she kept going off the grid unexplained. After the third time, I suspect she was too ashamed to admit that perhaps she did have a boyfriend or was working two guys simultaneously. Who knows. Either way she wasn’t honest, accepted gifts and didn’t even have the common courtesy to tell me to cancel the reservations while I still could.

Guys, if you are communicating with this girl, please be aware. Be very, very limited on what you commit to and what you spend prior to your first meeting.

Girls if you’re reading this, I don’t ask for much. Just honesty and integrity. Let me know what you’re really doing so we understand what’s going on. Be honest about your situation. It’s OK, we don’t judge. That’s not what Similiar Worlds is about. It’s about meeting like-minded people, and then being honest about everything and then who knows what the future provides. But if you have to lie and deceive, then it reflects poorly on you. If you’re just here fantasizing with no intentions of hooking up in person, say so. Don’t lead a person on thinking there’s going to be a meeting that just never happens. Whatever the case is, honesty is everything.

Why do I make this public? I hope that men perhaps will learn from my mistake. And women reading this will realize how important honesty really is. The integrity that we have to carry with ourselves day and then day out when we look at ourselves in the mirror and say to ourselves, I am a person who… Ought to be positive about ourselves. If you’re looking at yourself in the mirror saying I’m a person who lies, cheats and scams, then you have some real work to do. There’s no room in society for that.

Who is this girl that refuses say what’s really going on?

32DDgirl

Younameit · F

What is 32DD girl?

And if you met her on here I’m not even sure if they’re a girl at all. Have you video called her? Or at least called her?

bert199 · 51-55, M

@Younameit 32DDgirl is a Similiar worlds account. You can search the name and find her profile. Remember, she never asked for money. And she never asked for gifts. I did that on my own after we had a meeting date set up. Yes I have talked to her. The home address she gave me is legit. Packages were delivered. And she even sent a video of her with one of the gifts. So if she’s faking it, she’s doing a good job. But doesn’t seem fake. Seems like a girl with too many irons in the fire and got caught and wasn’t honest about it. What brought it to head was we are closing in on the date she was to come here. And she went off the radar for almost 2 weeks. Unreachable. Which makes a guy who’s making reservations a bit nervous. Especially when I have other irons in the fire and I’m telling them now. The point is. She went off the grid three times. The first time she made up a story about her phone, not working. The second time she said she had trouble with her phone again. Each one of those was three or four days. The third time she was gone for 10 days. That’s a long time to have a phone problem so a guy gets suspicious. I had asked her after the first time if she was seeing somebody else. And I told her it was OK if she was. There’s no expectation of over the Internet monogamy. That would be silly. I fully expect her to be entertaining offers from other men as I would be entertaining opportunities with other women. I asked her to be honest and above board with it, and if she was going away on a date for three days to just say so, but she insisted she was not. So she lied. And she got caught in her line. She put me in a position where I was nervous about the reservations and whether or not she was actually coming. After the 10th day, I left her some messages that probably either embarrassed her or shamed her to the point, she didn’t want to communicate at all. Even though I was telling her it’s OK just to confirm the reservation. So I hope this makes sense. It seems real. It just seems like somebody who’s playing too many men and it didn’t work out for her. The only reason I’m posting it publicly is in case she’s working other guys. Not necessarily for money but to make commitments and not follow through is really disruptive to a guy with a professional life and a family life who’s got a lot of balls in the air.