I would assume that someone with probably little social life who is busy and also copes with mental issue has reduced chances of finding a mate just based on limited exposure and opportunity. In general it is not worthwhile worrying what others think since you can't please them all anyway. However, in order to attract a mate you should have some idea what are attractive /unattractive behaviors and attitudes. Best of luck 🤞

It will put some women off, but that might not be a bad thing. Maybe you would be better off with a woman who is in a similar situation to yourself, as the two of you could help each other with your respective challenges.