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Be Honest Are you ok with this?

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Do you watch porn? Are you ok with sex workers?

I was talking to a friend of mine recently and we were talking about sex work. We were talking also about the irony of sex work. How a person can get into porn and be looked down upon. Also, how maybe a person decides to become a prostitute and is looked down upon more so than someone in porn despite the fact they are both paid for having sex.
I said that I have no problem with sex workers. Anyone who says they have an issue with them needs to reevaluate themselves. I’m not saying you have to accept their chosen profession but just because they’re a sex worker doesn’t make them a bad person.
I’ve seen many people, not just on here, judge others in their sexual preferences. Even if they are all consensual. Don’t get me wrong if it’s illegal and immoral, then I’m all for calling people out. However, if it isn’t and it’s their preference then maybe just don’t talk to them or read their posts.
For example. I’m not into diapers or spanking really. Like a light smack on the bum I’m down. However, others are and that’s ok.
For example, I’m into exhibitionism and sharing. Not in the cuck sense. I don’t need to watch. As long as her and I are on the same page, I am ok.
Are there people that would think I’m weird for what I like? Yes. I’m a firm to each their own and live and let live.
I get it that there are people who think this is wrong. That’s ok as well.
The reason this crossed my mind is I have a friend that lives on the east coast. She’s been struggling despite having a pretty decent government job. So recently she decided to meet a few guys a month and make money. For example today on her lunch break she gave a 5 min bj and made $500. Even if she does this 4 times it covers her rent and car payment.
SatanBurger · 36-40, F
In some countries they have sex worker unions, I am a big fan of unions generally and think that there should be more and it should be decriminalized all around.
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helenS · 36-40, F
I'm ok with sex workers (not that it would be any of my business) but I don't watch porn. Watching people f*ck is as boring as watching people eat.
Josh1454 · M
@helenS for me it depends the porn. Like 99%, you are correct. However I find that random one and I live to watch it.
SatanBurger · 36-40, F
I don't mean to have another comment I just wanted to say something. Here's the way I view sex workers, we're all doing what we can to survive. If a person wants to provide for their family because of circumstances that befallen them, then I say good on them.

But also, I think that some people, men or women or gender binary enjoys sex and may just have more of a sexual love language. I feel like some people are like that. That's actually at least ten porn stars I can think of who have chemistry degrees or lawyers but they felt trapped.

I realize this is a very small percent but some people just like sex and that's okay I feel.

Either way it doesn't determine character of someone. Like it's more important that people survive any way they can because the criticizers are always going to be hyper critical but they won't pay your bills. Their job is to get you to change your behavior for their own selfish reasons and not your own.
Nitedoc · 51-55, M
She gets $500 for a 5 min. BJ? I 'd say carry on.
Tastyfrzz · 61-69, M
Morality is a construct that varies depending on how much tax income the state needs and which religion(if any) is popular. Alcohol is ok even though it is addictive and deadly. Prostitution is blamed for spreading STDs but people meeting in bars and having one night stands is not.
I'm not even sure why sex work has such a bad reputation. Yes, people get traumatized. People get abused. But if it was legal and regulated, there would be less of that. But what do I know?
Josh1454 · M
@LordShadowfire it’s like my friend. No one pushed her into it. I mean people will say the economy did. However, she’s said that she loves giving his so why not get paid for it.

 
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