I can help you
Though I can't help myself xD
That's ok though, helping you makes me smile :) ♥️
That's ok though, helping you makes me smile :) ♥️
31-35, F
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JRVanguard · 26-30, M
@JRVanguard so much.
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Busybee333 · 31-35, F
@HootyTheNightOwl
Don't give up - keep looking for the right organization.
In the meantime, you have to find a way to survive without needing anyone's permission for basic things.
Can you work from home ? Maybe online or on the phone ?
Many jobs can now be completed at distance - that is some way for you to get financial independence.
Open a new bank account that only you have access to.
Save up until the doctor signs for the wheelchair.
Then leave to a new place (you can rent 1st floor - no stairs).
You can also buy your passport after moving out.
Just because you're on a wheelchair doesn't mean you can't survive and live well.
Also, there is no age-range and/or special condition for success. You can totally have big successes in life, no matter your condition.
Because you are brave, capable of many things, and you know you can achieve your goals. I heard a saying something in the lines of as long as your heart beats, there is still hope and there is still a way to solve it. You want freedom. Your will has no bounds - you must continue fighting for that freedom. The alternative will leave you regretful.
You can get your own place. Get there. The rest, you will think in motion.
Don't give up - keep looking for the right organization.
In the meantime, you have to find a way to survive without needing anyone's permission for basic things.
Can you work from home ? Maybe online or on the phone ?
Many jobs can now be completed at distance - that is some way for you to get financial independence.
Open a new bank account that only you have access to.
Save up until the doctor signs for the wheelchair.
Then leave to a new place (you can rent 1st floor - no stairs).
You can also buy your passport after moving out.
Just because you're on a wheelchair doesn't mean you can't survive and live well.
Also, there is no age-range and/or special condition for success. You can totally have big successes in life, no matter your condition.
Because you are brave, capable of many things, and you know you can achieve your goals. I heard a saying something in the lines of as long as your heart beats, there is still hope and there is still a way to solve it. You want freedom. Your will has no bounds - you must continue fighting for that freedom. The alternative will leave you regretful.
You can get your own place. Get there. The rest, you will think in motion.
Busybee333 · 31-35, F
****If this doc is impossible, save money go to another private doc*** If it saves you time and trouble, it is worth the money.
@Busybee333 I'm already working as his carer - and I'm currently talking to soon to be ex about potentially making my own wax melts to sell for money. I have to be careful with that though, because he knows that I can only work for 16 hours a week while I care for him.
He bought me an electric oil burner for Christmas this year - so, it would be logical to allow me to reduce old candles to wax enough to have something to burn in the burner... and, if I could sell a few on the side, that's a bonus. I've just got to do it as cheaply as possible because he wants to spend as much money as he can on himself on Amazon.
I have my own bank account... he never opened a joint account in the twenty one years since I married him. That's how he manages to cut me off financially - everything goes in his account. The government requires his consent to change that, even though it's not legally required now that I have demonstrated that I am being abused.
I'll never afford to go for private healthcare...
He bought me an electric oil burner for Christmas this year - so, it would be logical to allow me to reduce old candles to wax enough to have something to burn in the burner... and, if I could sell a few on the side, that's a bonus. I've just got to do it as cheaply as possible because he wants to spend as much money as he can on himself on Amazon.
I have my own bank account... he never opened a joint account in the twenty one years since I married him. That's how he manages to cut me off financially - everything goes in his account. The government requires his consent to change that, even though it's not legally required now that I have demonstrated that I am being abused.
I'll never afford to go for private healthcare...