How far should you go with by helping people ?

Basically they be dumping there problems onto me non stop and I can’t deal with it .
They’ll end up fine an I’ll be the one who’d end up in pysche ward .
So how far should I go with helping people .
I’m only a normal person and I don’t have answers most of the time and cause really the answer to that is that I’m not God .
How far should you go cause at times you be brain washed into helping people and they be going over and over the same stuff .
See when your doing it for so long helping people or being there for them (16years of it) when you back off you be thinking your a very selfish person .

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LadyGrace ·

When you feel dumped on or used, then stop. Or if you get to the point where you're really hurting yourself physically or you really can't do it, it's time to let It go. Especially if people are taking advantage of you and your kindness. It's never selfish to take care of yourself. You can't help others who appreciate it, if you wear your health down and I don't believe God expects us to do that. And then some people don't want help. They only want you when they need a sounding board. And then after that, they don't know you. That's not cool.