Helping people

Poll - Total Votes: 17

Keep being kind

Stop doing anything for anybody

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It seems like the more I do for people, the less they appreciate it and just come to expect me to take care of everything. And this includes family.

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Casheyane · 31-35, F

That is true.

It gets exhausting at some point. And yet, you love them so you keep being there anyway. I also don't know if there is a balance possible.

Caring for people makes them lazy.
But then you feel bad if you stop.
Now I'm trying this thing to only give/talk when asked/addressed to one person. Let's how long I can last lol