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I Like Helping People Less Fortunate

I like to help others. I do it willingly and without expecting anything in the end EXCEPT a thank you. I feel like I am blessed and I always want to return the blessing.

Nothing upsets me more than giving a gift or doing something nice and not receiving any acknowledgement. It shows a complete lack of gratitude. What is my response? I refuse to do anything again. Just plain and simple.

Let me give you a couple of examples. My boss’s daughter is helping with a charity in a very poor part of our state. I was able to buy 20 10.00 towels for her for .52 a piece. Great deal, right? Well they would not come and get them. I had to drive them to the office. They did not even acknowledge they picked them up. I was worried that someone would take them because I had loaded them in a big plastic garbage bag to keep them clean. I had to call and see If they even received them…then I received a thank you.

I send boxes to this little girl with clothing and gifts because her parents are drug users. I NEVER get a call. I have to call over and over to make sure the box didn’t mysteriously disappear. That just aggravates me to no end.

The sad thing is all that I ask for is a thank you..isn’t that sad? It costs nothing to be grateful, does it?
sciguy18
You've posted about the situation with the little girl's parents, so it's no surprise you received no acknowledgement of your gifts. While it would be nice to receive thanks for your generosity, take comfort in the fact that you know you are helping the less fortunate.
akindheart · 61-69, F
i have read that children's personalities form around the 3-5 age i believe. I want her to feel wanted, loved, special and beautiful...that brings me true joy!
Harley52
I'm just hoping she knows that the things are from you. I do know she appreciates everything you do, as do many of us. I'd love to be there when you are able to give her those gifts in person....to see her eyes and her smile.....and yours in the giving....
akindheart · 61-69, F
i hope she knows too. that gives me great pleasure...my rewards will come later honey...xoxo
Maoli
I found this ask.fm that seems to help people with advice. I just thought I should tell people. www.ask.fm/StepIntoMyOffice
akindheart · 61-69, F
thank you!
Maoli
You're welcome.
discipled
And Jesus said what ever you do unto the least of these you do unto me. My father who sees in secret will reward you .
akindheart · 61-69, F
Boy that sure is powerful. thank you for that. I don't expect reward but it does make me feel really good to help someone.
xxblasianxx
Thank you. :)
akindheart · 61-69, F
aww...thank you too for being so sweet..
xxblasianxx
Your welcome!
malkavianwolf
thats great i am the same way

 
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