I'm attracted to humans

Not sexually. Sorry. I just find them puzzling. An interesting puzzle. So yes I try to understand them and interact with them. I'd like to think I treat all people the same. Of course I'm sure I have my biases... again. I try. My concern is this... I truly don't think of sex AT all when looking at a person -male or female. So I'm sure it looks like I'm flirting when it comes to men. I'd like to think I'm just being me. I find this frustrating. And I don't like that I have to play the pious role of "just don't talk to men. Stay away from men. " but socially because of everyone ELSES high libido, I have to keep to myself. I'm thinking of bringing a book along and reading between games. THAT won't look weird!?!?

Society. Both good and bad. I get it. I just don't like it. I feel like I don't get to just be myself.

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samueltyler2 · 80-89, M

We understand.

Mindful · 56-60, F

@samueltyler2 awww thanks!

FloorGenAdm · 51-55, M

So you're like the forensic neuropsychologist on the Investigation Discovery crime channel?

Mindful · 56-60, F

@FloorGenAdm hahaha I used to try to do more in depth analysis here. And I did used to flirt on here with lofty intellects. Maybe in truth they were pathological liars. Maybe because I might be wrong. I found as an empath, it was a dangerous for me. I've been burned. I learned my lesson. I keep it simple now. few are as they appear/pesent. Even honest people--Most of us lie to ourselves without realizing it. So it's never a fair game here. I haven't solved any crimes!!! Haha...just had a couple of twisted results/experiences. So, public posting only. No one wants to be analyzed anyhow. They may not like my conclusions either.Turns out I can be judgmental Haha. And I don't have "the" answers. I only have more questions. I normally don't have the time to do this. Especially if and when someone on the other side is simply spinning a web of lies to keep me engaged. (Not because im interesting but because the other person gets a natural high playing a game of catch. I'm old school and don't see this site as a game to the level some people do. I did enjoy ferreting out some deceivers but they just got mad at me for revealing them. I thought it was wrong of them to lie. But we've all been warned so we should "know better" sigh. Thanks for the funny comparison. There is a lot to "Discover" here and in life.

BrandNewMan · 61-69, M

Lol .. so we're all kinda like lab rats under study? 😉

Mindful · 56-60, F

@BrandNewMan if your in my maze, yeah. But I'm sure I'm someone else's study. Heck I'm constantly studying myself! I don't always like what I see either! Hahaha

BrandNewMan · 61-69, M

@Mindful Such is life, no?

Mindful · 56-60, F

@BrandNewMan indeed.

HumanEarth · F

I kinda understand where your coming from. This makes sense to me - Specially this part "Society. Both good and bad. I get it. I just don't like it. I feel like I don't get to just be myself."

That's how I feel

Mindful · 56-60, F

@HumanEarth thanks for sharing with me. Another dynamic...it's very difficult for attractive people to be friendly because it's instantly misinterpreted.

HumanEarth · F

Your welcome

SinlessOnslaught · M

Often, and unfortunately, showing human kindness is misinterpreted as flirting.

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