Being lusted over but not loved is draining

Just needed to vent but if you have any advices from personal experience or you have studies in this particular matter would be great
A lot of people call me and consider me very sweet, veey beautiful, face body and personality, and i never thought this would get me so much pain from being lusted over.I ve had a lot of guys want me, serious or no serious(i didn t like them) but it happened that the guys i started to be into were just lusting over me or lusting over me and me not caring and when i started to, they distanced.Why is this happening?Some of the guys were fuckboys from the beginning but some of them had previous serious relationships, i just wonder even if i m not into them, why would they not want to be with me
Is it because the myth that guys want pretty cute style instead of beautiful girls, are afraid of too beautiful girls or they think they have no chance?If they re afraid for more then why aren t they afraid of sleeping with them?

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Justafantasy · M

You are arrogant. Get your head out of the clouds, you can be confident in your looks and personality. It's a lot of inexplicable stuff that makes you relationship worthy. Playing games and having a bunch of people after you isn't one of them

Eveline1234 · 22-25, F

@Justafantasy I think you missed pretty much what i was trying to say and ask

Justafantasy · M

@Eveline1234 you're saying a whole bunch of men look at you as something to do, nothing more, ever think you are the common denominator?

I have certain women who I'd absolutely want a relationship with nothing less, and I'm guessing they look at me as just someone else who wants to get into their pants.

Eveline1234 · 22-25, F

@Justafantasy yea, not all of them obviously, there are always exceptions and i ve met really nice people, but that doesn t mean that i have to like the first person that shows interest and wants a relationship

Justafantasy · M

@Eveline1234 when your interest appears to be in the people who lust after you not people who want something serious why would anyone who wants anything serious even bother?