Being lusted over but not loved is draining

Just needed to vent but if you have any advices from personal experience or you have studies in this particular matter would be great
A lot of people call me and consider me very sweet, veey beautiful, face body and personality, and i never thought this would get me so much pain from being lusted over.I ve had a lot of guys want me, serious or no serious(i didn t like them) but it happened that the guys i started to be into were just lusting over me or lusting over me and me not caring and when i started to, they distanced.Why is this happening?Some of the guys were fuckboys from the beginning but some of them had previous serious relationships, i just wonder even if i m not into them, why would they not want to be with me
Is it because the myth that guys want pretty cute style instead of beautiful girls, are afraid of too beautiful girls or they think they have no chance?If they re afraid for more then why aren t they afraid of sleeping with them?

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Is it because the myth that guys want pretty cute style instead of beautiful girls, are afraid of too beautiful girls or they think they have no chance?

Good that you have realised this quite early in life as many spend their lifetime not being able to distinguish love and lust.

You need to understand the psychology of yours and that of guys to find the ones you would click with. It depends how the guys get to know you, as they see your outlook and decide to approach you. But further on it would depend on how they treat your personality. For instance in online, we get to meet the personality first before the outlook.

Guys your age group want to explore.. so they won't have time to address the love aspect. So rather than deciding from those who approach you, you should on your own seek and explore and gauge on men of different age group handle you.