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Would you go ?

I just got invited to a graduation party
My Ex
Her new girlfriend
Her old girlfriend ( the married woman who used to be my friend )
and a whole bunch of other people that don’t like each other but are all my friends
are going to be there too .
I care too much about the graduate and her family to not go to that event but I have a feeling it’s going to be a sh** show 🙁
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Gangstress · 41-45, F
i would avoid that at all costs if that was me
Fluffybull · F
@Gangstress Me too! 😱😱😱
Gangstress · 41-45, F
unless there is a lot of alcohol then I may go lol @Fluffybull
Niloo · 51-55, F
@Gangstress
I have 1 month to think this over 😅
Maybe I can hide in a corner …
hyg346 · 46-50, M
No. Lol I wouldn't.
Niloo · 51-55, F
@hyg346
😅
4meAndyou · F
I would go, pay my respects to the graduate and her family, and then leave, saying you have a prior commitment.
CP4Life · 51-55, M
Sounds like drama waiting to happen, Id give it a miss.
Fluffybull · F
@CP4Life Yep, a lot of tension, fuelled by alcohol .....😱
Niloo · 51-55, F
@Fluffybull
I mean
It would be fun if the girlfriends got into a fight !😬
Ok
Maybe not
It would ruin the party …
Eddiesolds · 61-69, M
Id stay home in peace.
Niloo · 51-55, F
@Eddiesolds
The problem is , due to Covid, there were not many big parties but they are starting back up and if I want to avoid the situation I’d have to stay away from all gatherings :(
Eddiesolds · 61-69, M
@Niloo Well then you better go. You dont have to stay all night though. You could leave early.lol
Show up, have a drink, make some small talk with your friends and stay long enough to adequately congratulate the graduate.....

And then "Have another 'graduation celebration' you must attend"
Niloo · 51-55, F
@Threepio
That would be the most logical and politically correct way .
Hopefully I’ll have the emotional strength to do that 😅
Freeranger · M
I'd not go, but set up a smaller party for that family and the freshly minted grad a lil' later on. Parties like these seem to be in the news for someone coming in and shootin' up the joint.
JohnnyNoir · 61-69, M
Please tell me there will be lots of alcohol
JohnnyNoir · 61-69, M
@Niloo that should smooth over all the hard feelings
Niloo · 51-55, F
@JohnnyNoir
Lol!
It won’t
But I’m a happy drunk ! I’ll be too busy dancing to care 😬
JohnnyNoir · 61-69, M
@Niloo then dance away while the others have at it then
SW-User
do they have a good sense of humor though?
If yes, go! ..
If not, go but keep silent :)
Niloo · 51-55, F
@SW-User
I do!!
I have that and the 🥤
ImpeccablyImperfect · 56-60, F
Yikes.
Sounds like fuuunnnn
🤦‍♀️
Good luck with that
Niloo · 51-55, F
Iwillwait · M
Then go, and go there looking better than the best. Hold your head up high, show how unaffected you are. Be kind, be generous, be gracious.
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Quimliqer · 70-79, MVIP
There’s a good chance your feelings will happen. Go for the grad and her family and ignore the rest!!
melbeacher · 61-69, M
Laughing. I am going to the same type of graduation party this weekend.
PTCdresser57 · 61-69, M
Only you can control you...so go and don't let things get to you.

 
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