De-centering men from my life after multiple bad experiences with their selfishness.

I feel my sacrifices , time , energy, youth and kindness are exploited and wasted getting betrayal, slave treatment and disrespect in return. I wish i lived more selfishly, not making men my priority, i would been happier.

Many men can't differenitiate a slave vs a trad woman. Tired of making one-sided sacrifices. Tired of giving unconditional one-sided tolerance.

I am my own 1st priority, not men, making men 1st priorirty feels meaningless since many men r untrustworthy/unreliable/undeserving. I want to treat relationships with MEN as a part of my life, not make MEN my whole life.

Time to stop neglecting oneself for useless men and start proritizing oneself 1st. Atleast having a career is useful than having men abusing, betraying, cheating, abandoning, having affairs and leaving often.