Why is that often in groups i become the scapegoat, do i appear weak to people? Or am i hanging out with wrong groups?

I consider myself emotionally weak person.

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Rob04 · 18-21, M

Time for new friends, perhaps? Or put your foot down and take a stand against whoever blames you.

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@Rob04 whatever they blame me for, i will never blame myself for others bad actions or things not in my control. I know i can only change my behaviour and control my actions, not others actions/behaviours. Others bad behaviours are not my resposnibility.

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@Rob04 when i did call them out, they got more aggressive... I think it's better to stay away from such people.

I told some of them if they can't call out on bad people, then atleast stay quiet instead of supporting bad. I didn't get any response i believe.