How can i start believing in good men after many bad experiences with men ?...

@ABCDEF7 yes ! i too believe so!

@ABCDEF7 i think even if i see their true nature, it's hard to tell if they r bad or good sometimes.... They pretend to be good on outside and also justify their bad behaviours

@sahi81 Don't eat the unripen fruit or half cooked food. Let the relationship take it's own course with time and events.

There was a time when people used the things, and loved the people.
Now a days, people love things, and use people.

@ABCDEF7 i am scared of men, to get on their bad side, idk what they might do to me 😭

@ABCDEF7 do men who never abused a women or anyone exists?

@sahi81 Yes, there are good men too, who never hurt a women, and can not think of doing it. But your vibrations might be attracting the wrong guys. And you may need to take step from your side to get to the men you want in your life, they may not initiate or take the first step towards you.

@ABCDEF7 do u know how can i change my vibrations?

@sahi81 It's difficult to tell without knowing you much or meeting you. For many of things girls might not know what is attracting them to wrong guys, because they may feel it natural and original in their behaviour.

But there are few suggestions that may work for you. Try to change your dress, makeup, style of initiating conversations and advancing to friendships, similar to the girls around you whom you think/see guys are not attracted like they are to you.

@ABCDEF7 i tried all types fashions till now, no difference

@sahi81 You might need not be fashionable. And your style of interaction?

@ABCDEF7 i don't look very approachable, i am introverted

@sahi81 Then how do you come to meet those guys easily?

@ABCDEF7 they r the ones who approached me first

@ABCDEF7 i gave needy energy maybe

@sahi81 They surely would have approached you first, but now you have to delay the advancing in relationship, so as to give to time to judge them first.

@ABCDEF7 i think problem is.... i attached pre-maturely due to my own insecurities and fears of ending up alone bcuz rarely any guy approaches me. Maybe it could be bcuz i gave unapproachable vibes good men didn't approach ,

@ABCDEF7 i think it's due to my insecurities and low self esteem i allowed bad men in my life.

@sahi81 and also my belief about men is not good... that too effected me and made me tolerate bad behaviours from men feeling good men r rare.

@sahi81 Yes, are right. Bad men do take advantage of women when they sense she is unapproachable and insecure about having a relationship at all. There sole purpose to approach you is to exploit you.

@ABCDEF7 i felt good men don't want me....

@sahi81 With good men, you need not to tolerate their behaviour.

@ABCDEF7 maybe they do, maybe i just look unapproachable to them... I want to approach men if i like anyone...

@sahi81 Then you have to have patience in relationship. You need not to rush into relationships.

Give yourself some time and work on yourself to attract right kind of men.

@ABCDEF7 but how? idk what to do to attract right kind of man

@sahi81 Just look around, what type of girls good men are hanging with.