Men around me and men I come across are all bad.

They make me lose hope in good men. They make me feel dumb, worthless, useless, etc and also cause problems in my life. Men can't see me grow or happy just bcuz I am women. Men try to suppress me, pull me down, cause problems in my life just to put me one step behind them in everything i do just bcuz i am an woman. I hate men and I hate this world.

Even decent/normal men act so egoistic and self-important that they don't mind hurting anyone they perceive as lower than them to get their way.

No good man came in my life till now, idk why. I'm scared to interact with men again after getting hurt by many men in my life. I feel like good man is just an illusion. All i only wanted was a good man, but I never found any till now.

I'm hoping to come across only good men in future by trying new and different things though it's very hard for me to stay positive in all this negativity. I am trying to avoid negative men around me... I hate them all . I hope they get their karma !

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NativePortlander1970

My Dad and Grandfather were the kind hearted and gentle souls all kids with they had while growing up, my mother's extreme jealousy and lies cost my Dad his life at the hands of her older brother when I was ten, the small iowa county sheriff helped my mother's older brother cover it up to make it look like he took his own life.

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@NativePortlander1970 extreme jealousy is a red flag. I am avoiding such people.

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sahi81 · 22-25, F

@NativePortlander1970 that's so scary....

NativePortlander1970

@sahi81 My mother would have deserved it.

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@NativePortlander1970 yes ur mom
did deserve it ! Ur step sis is brave. It's scary to hear such incidents of people killing others.... I believe 50% of crimes committed by men r committed for a women, to protect her or to impress her.

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@NativePortlander1970 maybe some people can't control their emotions when jealous.... How evil of ur mom...

NativePortlander1970

@sahi81 My mother's older brother defacto confessed years later when he told me "family protects family, no matter how they do it.", while looking directly into my eyes, then added, "You know who I mean.", I forgot all about that until now, it was during a time in my life that I blocked out a lot of things in my late teens.

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@NativePortlander1970 sry I'm not comfortable hearing negative things like this.... And sry for ur loss

NativePortlander1970

@sahi81 Thank You so very much, I completely understand.