what would you think if someone said this to you?

so you were living abroad for 2 years and when you move back home your friend has turned into a total (sit in the house all day, smoke lots of weed & play video games) loser & when you ask them why they never want to go out for a drink or anything they say "sorry things cant go back to the way they were before"? and then they complain that they are bored and never do anything....... i mean wtf? get up off your lazy ass and do something.... i cut them off eventually and moved on with my life