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Sometimes it is them

If you are stressing over an altercation or a disagreement sometimes it is good to see how they are in their relationships with others.

If they create arguments with everyone, and fall out with everyone maybe it is them!
SW-User
This is very true, I need to remember this
@SW-User hello sweetheart
It really did help when my husband spoke to me about it
Ducky · 31-35, F
Makes sense to me. Some people only live to piss and moan about everything.
@Ducky
It is something hubs said to me when i had a huge ding dong with my MIL
He told me to look at how many family members i had fallen out with and how many she had ....

And now I see someone on here who is fighting with everyone and making godawful posts about her fights and seeing she is pissing g so many users off it is also safe to say it is her and not you.
Ducky · 31-35, F
@InOtterWords Yep, sounds pretty toxic to me.
SW-User
People often say that about you too and ur best friend
@SW-User
Lmao

In the almost 7 years i have been here i can count on one hand the friends that i have left behind and i never ever make any disagreement public, i have more class than that. In your one year here can you say the same?

And my "best friend" is an incredible woman who has supported me through my mental health, helped me focus and get a job and adjust to being a working mother. She inspires me with her wit and compassion and
her enormous spirit . She has never judged me on my nationality nor made me feel like my views are wrong, even when we have disagreed which we do.

This is, incidentally, the same best friend that you got a warning on your main account because you created new accounts to harass her no? The same friend that you messaged me about to try and cause a rift between us and when i did not take a side you attacked me and then blocked me?

I have a wonderful base of friends here, people that have been on quite a journey with me. There are people here who have shared laughter and tears with me. I will not measure my worth by those that hate me but i will learn from it and do better.

As someone who once thought of you as a friend i do think you need to get help, i don't know if your problem is alcohol or a lack of something in your real life but you need some sort of help. Talk to someone. Find a therapist. We all can benefit from therapy at times in our lives.

Peace out
SW-User
@InOtterWords As someone i once thought you were my friend, take care..

Being the oldest member, it's bullying and hatred to mass attack someone emotionally vulnerable. See if you can avoid that or someday this site too will shutdown.

Take care and do well..
And i know it doesn't matter.

I never disliked u.

Bye
DoubleRings · 51-55, F
Living that problem right now.
Sometimes it is them, othertimes it's you. Lately, it's been 100% them. Sorry you have to go through this too :(

 
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