Is it wrong to want the man I'm in a relationship with to prioritize me?

I'm a 23 year old female. I fell in love with a 55 year old man. A month into it, i find out that he's married and has kids. He apologized for not telling me and said he's going to separate from her. He did (because she found out) and we're together now. I feel really sad because he tells me he still loves his wife (as a person) and I know he will prioritize his wife and kids over me always. Is it wrong to want a man to prioritize me?

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DrSunnyTheSkeptic · 26-30, M

Oh boy, this whole thing..... how to say it, it doesn't make you look nice at all. I mean he's a total ass who deserves to get his marriage ruined for what he chose to do, but why would you decide to keep on with someone like that? At your age you could do so much better, the age difference might not seem like an issue at this point but it will be obvious quite soon. I'm sorry to tell you this but I think the man just wanted a young girl to sleep with.