Is it wrong to want the man I'm in a relationship with to prioritize me?

I'm a 23 year old female. I fell in love with a 55 year old man. A month into it, i find out that he's married and has kids. He apologized for not telling me and said he's going to separate from her. He did (because she found out) and we're together now. I feel really sad because he tells me he still loves his wife (as a person) and I know he will prioritize his wife and kids over me always. Is it wrong to want a man to prioritize me?

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SW-User

Not wrong in the least. But you won't be his priority.
He only left her because she found out. The whole relationship started on a lie. He was married with kids and never even told you. He's a loser.

Surely you can do better than that.