Is it wrong to want the man I'm in a relationship with to prioritize me?

I'm a 23 year old female. I fell in love with a 55 year old man. A month into it, i find out that he's married and has kids. He apologized for not telling me and said he's going to separate from her. He did (because she found out) and we're together now. I feel really sad because he tells me he still loves his wife (as a person) and I know he will prioritize his wife and kids over me always. Is it wrong to want a man to prioritize me?

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Dainbramadge · 56-60, M

Well... Lets try to put this delicately.
You were a side chick. He got caught and decided WTH might as well stay with the side chick now.
He prioritizes his wife and kids because that is what he wants. He wants to be back with them. He is just waiting for it to blow over with them and he is going back and you will be left out.
Use it for what it is not for what you want it to be.