Is it wrong to want the man I'm in a relationship with to prioritize me?

I'm a 23 year old female. I fell in love with a 55 year old man. A month into it, i find out that he's married and has kids. He apologized for not telling me and said he's going to separate from her. He did (because she found out) and we're together now. I feel really sad because he tells me he still loves his wife (as a person) and I know he will prioritize his wife and kids over me always. Is it wrong to want a man to prioritize me?

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Mktonght · 61-69, M

Wow, unfortunately you have put yourself in a situation that only will end in grief for you.
Any 55 year old man who would lie and take total advantage of your youth is mentally unstable. Unless your only in this for the money? Run like hell and save yourself years of grief!