Is it wrong to want the man I'm in a relationship with to prioritize me?

I'm a 23 year old female. I fell in love with a 55 year old man. A month into it, i find out that he's married and has kids. He apologized for not telling me and said he's going to separate from her. He did (because she found out) and we're together now. I feel really sad because he tells me he still loves his wife (as a person) and I know he will prioritize his wife and kids over me always. Is it wrong to want a man to prioritize me?

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Pretzel · 70-79, M

lose him
today
keep walking
don't look back

you're being used

and if he ever left his wife for you - congrats! you'd have a cheating husband that you can't trust alone

Keepitsimple · 51-55, F

@Pretzel BEST COMMENT. She’s have to throw a tracker on his car and phone and it would be constant fights, forget that!

Pretzel · 70-79, M

@Keepitsimple and sleep with one eye open

Keepitsimple · 51-55, F

She’s too young to be stuck with a loser. She’s a novelty for now. He doesn’t have any place to go but with her for now so of course he’s feeding her BS.@Pretzel