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A Moral Dilemma

This is a serious question because I’m torn about doing the right thing.

I live in an area that has many stink bugs, in the fall, and they come indoors for winter. I find one now and again, put it in a jar, and put it back outside on fallen leaves. I found one a few days ago, but put the jar down, and forgot to take it out. Now I find it’s still alive, and looking healthy, but it’s sub-zero outside with snow on the ground. I don’t want it to suffocate in the jar, and I don’t want it indoors, but feel like I’m condemning it to death placing it outside.

I believe all creatures have a right to their life, especially those with a short lifespan. They didn’t ask to be born a bug, and want to live as much as we do. I’m not sure how I reconcile using bug spray (which I will), with my philosophy of preserving life, but that’s another story. I sometimes wish that I was more mercenary, then I wouldn’t worry about a bug.

What can I do to give it a fighting chance?

*Update* I found the perfect place for it outside. Under a covered section, near the outside cellar door. There is still lots of green ground cover like holly or ivy or something. Then there are fallen leaves on it too, so lots of deep cover with some moisture, but no snow. It has the plants to eat, and water, and I think the ground cover and leaves will keep it warm.
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okaybut · 56-60, M
Your home is not a natural habitat....put it outdoors and let it follow its natural path in nature.
Carissimi · F
@okaybut I think you are right. My emotions will just have to feel bad for awhile. I can’t be responsible for every bug, and if I can give it a fighting chance to survive, I will, but sometimes you can’t even do that, and I need to accept this.
BigAssLeech · 31-35, M
I took in a stink bug earlier this year who was injured.

Poke tiny holes in the top of the jar, or cover the jar with cling wrap/foil and poke holes in it. Put some sticks and foliage in it. Stink bugs are flying insects, so they like to climb up high.

They also eat soft-skinned fruit and vegetables, like grapes, soybeans, tomatoes, etc. If you sense he/she is not eating, you can put some sugar water in an eye dropper and offer it to them. They will smell it with their antennae, and if they're interested, should reveal their proboscus and begin feeling around for the water. Either leave a drop on your hand, or guide their proboscus inside the dropper.

Temperature wise, they like to be warm. Room temperature should suffice. They also require humidity, so a light misting of the jar every other day is nice, or put the jar in a room with a humidifier.

Thank you for helping the bugs!
Carissimi · F
@BigAssLeech I’m nice, but not that nice. I don’t want to be caretaker to a bug, although I think it’s very noble of you to make that effort, and I do appreciate your advice and information. I commend you for your compassion.
I like the clingfilm idea until I decide on best chance for it. However, the only room temperature is in the house.
BigAssLeech · 31-35, M
@Carissimi When you take in an animal, regardless of species, you do become its caretaker. It's the least you could do.
Carissimi · F
@BigAssLeech A puppy, a kitten, yes. A healthy bug? No, sorry. I’m more of a do no harm type when it comes to bugs and spiders, rather than nurture and care for them. I don’t like creepy crawlies, although I do feel a slight affection for the stink bugs. I want it out of the house. If I can do it, so it causes no harm to the bug, then that’s enough for me.
Magenta · F
My thoughts align with Zen and okay's. They are equipped to survive in nature. But I was thinking if you have a barn or shed maybe put it in there, at least it will have a little shelter.
Carissimi · F
@Magenta There is a detached garage, but must be freezing in there too. Maybe I’ll put it next to the garage, so it can find water, but it’s probably going to freeze. Maybe thousands freeze anyway if they can’t get into houses, and my logical side says I can’t be responsible for the welfare of every creature on the earth.
Magenta · F
@Carissimi Well you can only do so much. Perhaps they naturally die off in winter. This just shows your deeply caring and kind heart. 💓
You have the beliefs of a Buddhist, Carissimi. It is admirable. Do you know anyone who has a greenhouse or a large collection of indoor plants who would take this bug inside? You could take him to a public greenhouse and drop him off even. I am chuckling at you smuggling a bug like that.
@Carissimi From what I have read, these bugs hibernate in the cold. They just need a dry, tight, cold place. I am curious as to why you are no longer Buddhist. He needs to be free. You are kind for thinking of him.
Carissimi · F
@PoetryNEmotion That’s a complicated story why I am no longer Buddhist. I’m a bit of many things. Christian, Buddhist, Hindu. It’s not that I hold on to one religion or philosophy, but take the good from all. The good that resonates with my own soul. Buddha said to follow your own light, and I do.
@Carissimi I love stories. Perhaps some time you would explain it? That is good considering we are each a part of all our experiences, our encounters, our music, etc. I like your words. And I possess my own light. Thank you.
SW-User
They're equipped to survive outside. I do the same thing with spiders, and feel guilty 😩😩😩
SW-User
@Carissimi it's not your fault. The fact that you care speaks volumes. I'm sorry that you have to do this..😔
Carissimi · F
@SW-User Thank you. I can see you are the same. We do what we can, and have to leave the rest to nature. It’s hard though because we feel so bad for not being able to save what needs saving.
SW-User
@Carissimi at least we have the heart to try. It's what matters. 💛
ThePerfectUsername · 70-79, M
Build it some sort of shelter from the rain and wind. It doesn't have to be much. A few of handfuls of leaves or twigs with a few heavier objects on top (small logs/bricks/stones) to prevent them blowing away ought to give it enough little crevices to craw into to escape the elements.
Carissimi · F
@ThePerfectUsername I’m about to give an update, so you can see what I found.
Carissimi · F
Thank you to everyone for your suggestions and advice. The update is at the bottom of the main post.
I must say for a sub-freezing temperature, and a crisp layer of snow, it was lovely out there. Calm and clear, and it didn’t feel cold. It felt like Christmas. ☃️❄️🌲
SmartKat · 61-69, F
My opinion? They probably lived outside for millennia before humans even made buildings. It can go live outside.
Carissimi · F
@SmartKat You are right. It’s just a sad fact of existence.
If you believe in reincarnation your killing the bug will help it to move on to its next existence, which could be a higher one.
Carissimi · F
@LamontCranston I don’t know if there is reincarnation or not, but I hope it’s not someone I know. Kidding aside, I respect that the concept is a possibility. For all I know it could be my grandfather, although I hope not. Horrible to come back as a bug.
ravenwind43 · 51-55, F
I hate to be the meanie of the group but stink bugs are disgusting and I have no problem getting rid of them. Millions will return next season. They came over from another country and there's nothing I can do about the weather changes here.
@ravenwind43 Certainly a sound practical observation.
Carissimi · F
@ravenwind43 To me, they are the least offensive bug of all. I even feel a mild affection for them, but I still don’t want them inside my house.

I think they came from Japan or some Asian country, so an invasive species, and they do cause damage to plants and crops.

You are right. We don’t control the weather, and I can’t be responsible for every creature/insect I come across, but I have to at least try to think of a way for the ones I can save to survive, in their natural habitat.

I wish I were different, sometimes, because it causes me more angst than I need, although I work to become a bit more mercenary, in my outlook, than my natural inclinations.
4meAndyou · F
Build it a little lean to outside, and build campfires on both sides. The bug will be warm until the fires die...which is basically the same as saying he was going to die in the winter, anyway.
Carissimi · F
@4meAndyou Your point is well taken. Thanks.

 
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