If somebody says “after one mistake of having a baby....”

Are they implying that the baby is a mistake or having a baby in general is a mistake

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Some people shouldn't be parents, others mean it because it is extremely hard being a parent but they love their children.
Having kids puts a lot into your life but it also takes alot away from your own life and can push you to breaking point.
I don't really understand why so many people have sex without contraception when they know they don't want to have a child