Can you ever fully trust someone after you know they’re a liar? So I’m trying really hard to...

That person is dangerous in that they are missing a conscious.

Walk away from that person, he/she is toxic.

MrBeags · 36-40, MNew

These are toxic traits and I would run. It may seem alright for now, but these are people who throw others under the bus if they feel it helps them look better.

NoGamesTolerated · F

It insults my intelligence for people to lie to me.

Primnproper · 56-60, F

I’m sorry but me personally couldn’t put up with that no matter what the friendship means. Either that or I would have to face them off and call it out every time and say just stop.

ElwoodBlues · M

Someone who makes a game out of earning and breaking your trust is fundamentally toxic; it's a form of sadism. If you can't afford to get them out of your life, so be it, but just know they will keep taking opportunities to cause you pain.

P.S. It's not really a gift if you're paying for it with pain. And, since it's NOT a gift, you can decide yourself if it's worth the price or not.

ABCDEF7 · M

People don't lie by chance, they lie by choice.

in10RjFox · M

The question here is Why should One trust Another ?

It only means that you have no life of your own and that you are worthless and the reason why you are constantly behind the back of someone else.

So just live life for the moment, by doing whatever you think is best. Don't expect any thanks or return, which only means that you are trying to use them for your advantage.

OlderSometimesWiser · F

Can’t imagine under what circumstances that would be possible. And don’t know why you’d give them the benefit of the doubt. It’s like trying to keep a building standing when the foundation is crumbling.

JestAJester · 31-35, M

Its like this. Every new person you give the benefit of the doubt because you simply do not know the depth of their character but at the same time distancing yourself to protect yourself. The more you talk and get to know them the more those walls tear down. However, when the lies start and all the misdeeds against you pile up thats when those walls go back up. My philosophy is if they've done it once they'll do it again. It sounds to me like you're letting your personal feelings cloud your judgement, we're all guilty of that.

2ndtimeguy · 61-69, M

Trust is gone avoid them if possible that is who they are!

thinkingoutloud · F

Probably not.
There might always be a 'what if?' hanging around.

CrazyMusicLover · 31-35

No, they have issues. Run.

Jarffff · 46-50

Yes, lying is a human all too human trait, and i can't end up miserably not trusting anyone because of that, that is letting them control me.

But for that person described above, don't associate with them anymore.

Bob0Bob

I try to be as honest and upfront as I can. I don't like fake people, or people who steal/lie. But yes, I would walk away from the friendship if I were in your position.

riseofthemachine · 41-45, M

If your around a liar or a person that tells lies you be uncertain and hyper active .
You be trying to make it work out cause you feel sorry for then

InHeaven · F

If what you get in return is more important than the lies 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️then thats what you want?

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iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

This is just so toxic. If you can feel them lying to you then you can never trust them.

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