Am I just bad at conversation, or do these people have stalker tendencies? [I Am Bad At...

BlueVeins · 22-25

I'm always sus of ppl with no profile shit.

I don’t think it’s stalkerish behavior as much as it’s a form of desperation for whatever they’re seeking through reignited the connection. Two years is way too long to go without conversing, especially if the opportunity has been there to have a conversation. Going back to refresh the memory of what was spoken is just a form of them trying to get in your good graces by showing compassion for the conversation that they willingly put on hold to seek out other conversations that fulfilled what they needed at the time. People have their reasons for doing what they do, which is often for selfish purposes, but I’ve learned that it’s best to continue on my journey without that kind of person in it. Time and energy are too precious to spend them engaging with someone who uses you as a time filler as they see fit.

DragonFruit · 61-69, M

You are obviously a very bad person with diminished memory...these poor people who are enchanted with you and your words are being forgotten and cast aside by you. 😞

Ryannnnnn · 31-35, M

To me, that points to a lack of social graces on their part. Most people would be aware of that and they'd address that first like "I know it's been a while, oops haha" or something like that. Maybe the people without anything on their profiles are insecure or unsure of themselves and spend too much time on here without real connections. So maybe could be stalker-ish but either way they're maybe not that great at interacting with people in general?.

ExperienceDLT · M

They may have archived the message but it is weird to wait 2 years to message again

JoeyFoxx · 51-55, M

Clearly, you make impressions on people.

Though, when someone acts too familiar, that could be a warning sign.

bookerdana · M

Maybe they just looked at the last messages

SW-User

That is odd.

JohnOinger · 41-45, M

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MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M

i mean 2 years is long enough to lose interest but just because they re-read their messages to be able to start talking to you again it doesnt meant theyre stalkers.

Am I just bad at conversation, or do these people have stalker tendencies? [I Am Bad At Conversation]