My coworker said I was intimidating before he got to know me

I kinda like that characterization too. I choose to look at it as meaning confident and assertive. Of course others may define it as being a beyotch but what they think of me is none of my business. 😄

I hear that a lot about myself at work and not sure why...being sarcastic is just part of my personality 😒

Interesting, did you ask why?
Is this fella just easily intimidated?

People get intimidated by me, it's because I have a big strong physique with a stern expression. But as soon as they get to know me, they see that I'm a chill goofball.

I’ve had that before but did you see it in yourself because I didn’t at the time?

It definitely can feel good. Especially if you've been hurt. Having a shield feels good.

You should take that as a compliment. I would.

Most don't get to see my " sweet " side.

Guess you gotta earn it.

It's helpful to have insight into how people see you...it helps explain interactions.

You sound like a real ball-breaker! No offence!

Makes you sound dominate

Could have been worse...https://similarworlds.com/workplace/work/5014832-Co-worker-knocked-out-with-one-hit-This-happened-five-plus

because your voice is deeper than his 😦