Why do humans think it’s okay to comment on others body?

I am a prude. Before anyone tries to accuse me of anything, I never wear revealing clothing because I’m autistic and only feel comfortable when my clothes are baggy.

Anyway, I was leaving the gym earlier and had this man cat call me because of my “fat” buttocks.

I understand to modern Americans a big butt is attractive, but I get this comment a lot and I don’t understand why they think it’s appropriate to tell me. 😞 I can’t even say it’s only men. I’ve had a woman coworker comment too.

I think my history of áń0rexiä might make me extra sensitive to this. I’m heavier than I have been in years and it makes me want to die.