I'm so sorry to hear that.
Some of my replies are ignored too so you're not the only one.
If you ever replied to any of my questions Im sure I gave you a reply back. I'm pretty good about that. Every answer is appreciated.

I'm kind of the same way. There are people who raise questions where it's fun to participate in a conversation so I reply to those. Some people I just don't reply to because the conversation won't be useful. In some cases, I see a good point (like yours) and ig I have something to add, I will.

To be fair, the replies tend to be on the original post and not on the other replies. It's a rare post that has a long thread of replying to replies where the conversation is improving the condition of the world in some way.

So that said, "yep".

I think it’s all about timing when people are on, or the various groups they are subscribed too.

Just wait seven days.

Don’t fret. It’s not complicated here. Boobs get responses. It’s not personal. There are some really nice women that get quite a bit of activity. It’s simply not the same for men.

Keep the kindness meter high and the expectations low. It makes the activity on the site easier to digest as a man.

Again, it’s not personal at all. 👍🏻

Hi Lee

As others have said, don't take it personally. You have some good posts and ask open ended questions. You seem like a sincere dude so I will try to reply to your posts if I have something relevant to say.

And hey...if you want attention, you could always make a post on a controversial political topic and take a stand...people will flock from all over to either support you or attack you....

I'm sorry if I've done that. It gets hard to keep track of posts and replies because of the algorithm. I'll get a butt load of replies to a four day old post and it doesn't display chronologically. I look back months later and notice replies I missed.

I been here for four years and it is mostly the same.
Didn't used to be like that, I guess some of us just get "algorithm'ed" to the back of the line.

It is a good thing ultimately, I am now more focused on my language practice app where I can actually learn stuff.

Well, you've had 137 views on this post. I'm lucky if mine get 5 🤣😂😂🤣😂

My posts don't get much engagement either. I don't know how great I am at replying to comments on my posts for that matter. 🙃

its probably a curse. ask Jesus to break it.

Im sorry that you've been treated that way....

Yep. 🤣

Keep posting, being true to yourself

The algorithm plays a part and sexual posts and women get more replies unfortunately.

I think what substitutes for open dialogue on this website is the unprecedented use of the 'heart' button. Instead of people responding with the same dialogue you offered when answering one of their questions, if they reply to you at all, 99% of the time they will offer a cursory push of their heart button as their formal acknowledgment of what you have posted to THEIR thread.

If I owned this website, the very first modification I would make would be to eliminate the option of sending hearts in place of written dialogue. I would rather nobody respond to my posts at all, than to receive a plethora of goddamn hearts.

The algorithm sucks. Howdy

Sadly I understand. What I have noticed is one of my posts will go an hour or two with no replies then let one popular person reply and all of a sudden my post lights up with replies. ☹️