How Do You Feel About Catfish?

Catfishing is when someone sets up a fake online identity and uses it to trick and control others.

I pretty much assume everyone on SW is not who they say they are. As long as we're enjoying the conversation and you are not trying to control me, I have no need to find out if you are who you say you are. I feel like I am probably in the minority on this.

I am really me. It's 2024, there are a million ways to verify. I would have no problem setting up a video chat so someone could know that I'm me. But ten years ago, I was stuck in a straight relationship I couldn't be fully present in. I was overwhelmed and miserable. I needed an anonymous space where I could escape and pretend to be someone else. That became the catalyst for me figuring out who I really am.

So I get it. I have a TON of grace for people pretending to be someone they are not. But please don't confuse me playing along with thinking I believe you.

What do you think about SWeeps pretending to be someone they aren't?

SW-User

I don't assume people are fake, but I do wish to avoid catfish. I want to be accepting, but also, it's lying. Maybe I just don't want more fakes and liars in my life.

ShadowSister · 46-50, F

@SW-User Depends on what you're looking for, I guess. I'm not going to meet anyone from SW irl. So if it makes them feel good about themselves to roleplay as someone else, I don't personally see the harm. But also maybe that's WHY I assume everyone here is fake, so I don't get hurt by lies.