@ServantOfTheGoddess more likely any porn star has a super normal acct and none of us know because she just wants to be treated as a person. She gets enough of the other shit on her own website, I’m sure. I’d more likely believe there’s a pornstar trying to just be a regular person here.
@ServantOfTheGoddess Naw, I don’t really care. People be who they are on here for a variety of reasons. Support, self esteem issues, loneliness… as long as it doesn’t hurt anyone, I don’t care. I’d garner all of us aren’t exactly what we present on here. I know I don’t show all of who I am. It’s human nature to show certain facets of ourselves on a semi anonymous website like this. I always operate under the assumption that the person I’m talking to may not at all be the person they present or may just be somewhat different. It doesn’t matter as long as they are nice, interesting, and kind to me. Some of the stealing identity shit I don’t get… but whatever. If they are trying to defraud people… or something immoral and illegal like kids, that’s different. That’s where my line is.
@JustGoneNow I agree with you. This is a wonderful place for exploring different sides of ourselves and trying out different personas. Actually trying to mislead people is different. Mind you the boundaries are sometimes unclear and I have fooled people without meaning to in the past.
@ServantOfTheGoddess My problem is giving out too much. And then when they get all Nancy Drew because some things aren’t adding up… I realize what I’ve done. It’s like they actually DO add up but in order to explain that, I’m going to have to out myself and I can’t do that. My career is most likely trashed and gone at this point, but on the odd chance that it’s not… I can’t let stuff from here follow me. So… I’m learning to be even more private. I do have a couple people that know a whole lot about me, but after five years I know I can 💯 count on their discretion.
@iamonfire696 problem is that people always want more. I post my thoughts, they want me to post a pic. I post a pic, they want a vocaroo. I do a vocaroo, they want to Skype. Like listen fuckers… you don’t need all that. I’m not trying to date you or be FaceBook buddies. It’s just never enough, so I’m sort of done with that.
@JustGoneNow Bless you to have the strength not to let yourself be pushed around or sucked in by greedy inconsiderate people. You have the right to draw the lines where you want and you don't owe anyone on here anything.
@ServantOfTheGoddess I mean I DID post the pics… (several over the years,) a few vocaroos… so they can hear I have a girl’s voice… so I wouldn’t say I’m that strong. But the moment I say no… (like Skype,) I’m fake or a dude. I just don’t even care. It’s not that important to me. I really just want to share my thoughts, get some non sexual support and friends cause I get lonely, and that’s it. This other highschool crap bullshit is not even what I’m here for. I mean I do get flirty sometimes because it makes me feel pretty or attractive… but I’m not actually going anywhere with it. I’m fucking happily married for god’s sake. I don’t know why I flirt. Low self esteem, I guess. Sometimes I just want to here I’m pretty, because I’m totally not feeling it.
@JustGoneNow I don't think you have any reason to be ashamed or embarrassed about flirting or wanting people to tell you you are pretty. At the same time it's so easy for our needs to get entangled with other people's. You want some positive reinforcement, some lonely or horny person wants more and thinks you are offering. It's hard to be a human among humans...
@ServantOfTheGoddess that’s honestly what’s fucked me everytime. I’m just play flirting all sexy like and the other person’s catching feelings but I miss it. then they feel like I’ve ghosted them but I was just playing, so they trash me out to anybody who will listen. Sucks. Human among humans, yeah.
@ServantOfTheGoddess so, I’m trying to keep my flirting real minimum now. Because honestly, I ain’t trying to hurt nobody (even on accident) and I’m very happily married.
@JustGoneNow it doesn’t help when you have someone that trashes you like that person did even after all of the things they said to you and edited out of the conversation to make you look very bad.
Lots of married people flirt. You can see it here on this website. You’re fine.
@JustGoneNow nothing like she said. But honestly I wasn’t shocked because that’s what she is like. Plays the self righteous victim which is a joke after all she’s done.
Don’t feel bad. She’s married and having an affair with a married man who has kids.
@JustGoneNow OMG she needs to stop throwing those stones living in that glass house of hers.
And you know we all make mistakes and have transgressions and no one would give a crap about hers if she wasn’t out here damning other people for the things she’s doing.
