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My Experiences Of Racism

Kinda interesting.

Living in the multi-cultural country of the United Kingdom. Being brought up in Nottinghamshire before moving to Derbyshire. Huge ethnic background. Cool.

People had moved to those areas, from aboard, since the 1950's. As generations grow, new generations come. Different attitudes are fostered.

Speaking personally, I've not really had any direct racism as such. Not verbally. Occasionally I have had those eyes that linger just a bit longer than they should be. I've never - thankfully - had the 'N' word thrown at me.

But, what I have had, and it's mostly the older people but sometimes people in, oh, I'd say, their 30's. What I have had is people saying something like 'Oh, I'd never thought that we'd get on, y'know?', which I have taken as some form of indirect racism. Calling those people out - not always, but when I feel that I can - I hear them backtrack.

Racism? I've never understood. I, as a black woman, would never think about calling someone something like 'white bread', y'know? It's just disrespectful. Do black lives matter more than any other lives? No, of course not, but we as non-whites are subjected to, obviously, a huge history of abuse, but recent more subtle racism that we have from day to day.

Just my own thoughts...
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Adstar · 56-60, M
A person who has been indoctrinated to believe that racism is all around them will end up interpreting innocent statements like ""'Oh, I'd never thought that we'd get on, y'know?'"" as revealing that person as being racist.. When you have it etched into your head that racism is everywhere and there all out to get ya.. You will interpret every statement you get as being a racist micro aggression of some sort.. You got to make the world fit what the brain washers have indoctrinated you into believing..

No doubt this very post of mine will be interpreted as some form of racisim...
StreetwalkerApril · 26-30, F
@Adstar Hun, words are always down to interpretations. They have their own baggage attached...yes, even yours! When making people aware of what they say, or how they say things, that will lead to educating them.

Y'know?
Adstar · 56-60, M
@StreetwalkerApril Nope.. Calling people who are not racist, Racists simply for an innocent comment or word they have said actually provokes indignation and anger as a victim of a false accusation.. The injustice of being denigrated ( usually publicly as being a racist leaves a smoldering long term resentment and anger that in the end that person will start to hate the people they never had an ounce of hate for before they where wrongly accused of being racist.. Such an easy and quick way to make more enemies out of nothing.. Just denounce people as racist..
StreetwalkerApril · 26-30, F
@Adstar So you're trying to imply that racism doesn't even exist?!?
Adstar · 56-60, M
@StreetwalkerApril No i never said anything of the sort.. YOU are projecting that upon me to undermine my POV because it challenges your world view.. If you cannot quote something i have said you have to make up something that i never said to undermine my credability before continuing the false attack.. RIGHT..
helenS · 36-40, F
@StreetwalkerApril It may be a question of perception. It's easy for a white person to claim that racism is virtually non-existent. They've simply never been the victim. When i was in America as a physics student, young, white, female (and maybe even pretty?), I did not encounter any racism.
StreetwalkerApril · 26-30, F
@Adstar I think you'll find, boo, that I wasn't attacking you, per say, just stating the fact that just because you haven't experienced it, don't make it not real...

RIGHT
Adstar · 56-60, M
@StreetwalkerApril See you don't even know if i have or have not experienced racism but you're stating that i have never experienced racism (pure projection). You're still arguing against me as if i have the Position that racism does not exist.( A position i have never had).. You're no longer talking with me.. You're creating a strawman and debating it.. There is no point talking with you anymore.. Because you are no longer talking with me and you're no longer reading what i say..
SW-User
@helenS of course pretty 😛
helenS · 36-40, F
@SW-User Well thank you, I guess 😏🌷
StreetwalkerApril · 26-30, F
@Adstar But...if you haven't experienced racism then that's the very reason that you're attacking me, boo. Why are we talking? I'm not calling you racist, but if you haven't experienced it then...y'know.....you really don't understand what I mean.

I understand your point of view - not everything can, and should, be tagged as racist. Fair comment.

But racism can be very subtle too.....which is my point, boo.
SW-User
@helenS 😋