Should I break up with my boyfriend?
He's been cheating. I'm too upset to even confront him....I really didnt expect this from him 😭 i never thought he would do this. He keeps messaging me acting as if nothing is wrong and i can’t face him.
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All the people here saying he’ll do it again, cheats never change etc, these are easy cliches but they’re way too simplistic. You might as well say people who abuse drugs or alcohol will never change, which is plainly not true. Some (not all) people can , and do, manage to change how they live and to stop negative, destructive, behaviour patterns. Anyone with a reasonable amount of life experience and ability to observe human behaviour knows this to be true. Apart from anything else , I used to be a cheat but I’m not now and haven’t been for decades now so my case alone disproves ‘once a cheat , always a cheat’.