I refuse to endorse gender pronouns

For example, I hate being called Miss/Mrs/Ms Charlton. Especially 'ms'. as that directly implies mental incapacity to 'presume' a single women of mature age is a 'ms'. Maybe I should put a fake wedding ring on and then everyone will look at my hand and presume I'm a 'mrs'. ewww

@butterflybaby75 I get you. I hate it too but it's so normalized that I don't even know what else to use. I'm usually referred to as mrs even if I'm single. I guess people rather use it by the age I look than marital status. Ms is for teens and girls in their early 20s, anything past that sounds ridiculous.
Anyway, I remember when I started shifting from ms to mrs and it made me feel old. 😅 Also, a word for random woman is "aunty" here which when I got referred to with around 20, all my hair stood up. Excuse me? Aunty?

@ThePatientAnarchist that would be ideal. I have no problem with how anyone lives their life but the amount of pronouns out there is a bit much. I think gender equality has bigger fish to fry and went after small details instead. Personally, I don’t give a damn what anyone calls me. Just let me be who I am and respect that!

@SatanBurger that part ☝

You're absolutely correct. People have no human decency. They are always trying to dictate how others should exist. Everyone should be able to exist without hatred & judgment. Homophobia is just a cousin of Racism in my eyes.

@AngelUnforgiven Yup and it doesn't hurt anyone to refer to people how they want anyways. To act like it physically hurts one's self to do so is just wild. The only types of people I know to deny other's existences and just have that amount of manipulator victimology going on are full on narcissists.

@MaBalzEsHari there are many valid points here. I know people don’t want to hear them but I truly think it’s part of the reason we’re in the mess we’re in. I don’t think people need to keep things to themselves as we all want to celebrate love and happiness. I do question the expectations tho. I would never go to a foreign country and expect them to learn my language. That being said, the lack of acceptance by others is what usually brings this on, whether it be race, gender, sexual preference, etc. Sometimes we have no choice but swing the pendulum to the extreme just to hope for it landing in the middle.

@BohemianBabe They have another post that is anti lgbt.

@SatanBurger Yeah, that's what I was thinking. I was so curious, I checked her profile. But a transphobe saying she doesn't want to use pronouns? This is literally like when Herschel Walker complained that they're bringing pronouns into the military. I don't know, maybe she has the same brain damage.

@BohemianBabe They have a few posts looking at women and their privates, there are terfs and stuff who like the same gender but dislike the trans community. They don't all identify as terfs or know what that word is nor may subscribe to anti trans feminism but they are personality wise in some aspects at least. But this user also has a few posts making fun of single moms and saying it's all women's fault in relationships. They do it in more of a "polite" way but it is thinly veiled right wing content.

I have come to the conclusion that it's either a simple minded troll, a male conservative which would be hilarious considering this post is about refusing to use pronouns and to identify as female is ironic considering or a female slightly conservative poster who is probably terf minded.

But then of course brain damage is the simplest answer and they say the simplest is probably most likely true.

@Degbeme I yam what I yam. I've hads all I can stands and I can't stands no more!

@YoMomma genders are male or female. not he/him/she/her/they/them/ze/zis/etc.

@butterflybaby75 references to gender 🙂

@Tumbleweed "Hey you!" "that one over there" 😆

@greensnacks Yes. when I talk to someone I use their real name and if I don't know what that is I politely ask what it is. Gender pronouns are not part of a person's name and are 'made up' titling.

@butterflybaby75 so you basically talk like this:

"Me and Sarah went walking the other day. The nature was wonderful and me and Sara saw a ton of ducks. The ton of ducks were playing in the water, jumping and fishing and feeding the babies. Me and Sarah called Jen to tell Jen about the fun day at the park and the ducks. Jen said that sounds like a wonderful time spent and that we should've invited Jen to come with us. Me and Sarah said we are sorry, we didn't think of inviting Jen because Jen was preparing Jen's wedding and Me and Sarah though Jen would be busy "


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@Elessar Google translate doesn't recognize. 😆

@CrazyMusicLover Because we don't really have K. Try "canapa" 😅

@Elessar Aaaah, makes sense. 😆 Konope here.